It is difficult to write at times but sometime it comes easy and quick. I mean it's as simple as if you have something to observe and react to it instantly that you can write. But this time it's all about plain and simple truth. We as humans have needs and these are what makes us work towards in situations we otherwise may not.
Asli and Ugly is all about the outside world, place where we work spend most of our time and then end up being so involved and busy that it's our asliyat and at time turns very UGLY too. Situations make us do literally what not and for who just ourselves. Everyone wants something for them and somehow we are not brought up so that we become comfortable with the idea of why people want something for them. We wish that someone should be selfless to us but when the most closest ones to us dont react so how could we expect the rest of the world to be with us that way.
So the asliyat behind this UGLYiyat is our need and the situation we fall into that makes us do everything....Rest more later...!
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hAI fRIENDS...NEED YOU THOUGHTS ON IT...IF ANYONE OF YOU SEEM INTERESTED....LET ME MAKE THE TOPIC CLEAR...ARE WE COMFORTABLE WITH THE IDEA THAT THE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD OUT THERE ARE THERE TO MAKE A LIVING FOR THEM AND EVEN IF WE WORK TOGETHER IT'S FINE TO COMPETE....BUT COMPETE AT WHAT TERMS...YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE....ARE WE HAPPY WITH THIS COMPETITIVE WORLD FULL OF RACE AND JEALOUSY...IS IT THE ONLY WAY OUT...??
Well...as ever as of now I do not expect people to write in return...let's check tomorrow if there are any thoughts and I know even if there are any it wont easy except from these those few....lets watch if there are any surprises...!
I feel like writing after sometime now and though am a little unsure as to what to write atleast am glad that I began writing. I have never been of the thought that I shall expect people to respond back to my posts besides I am currently not with the set of people who would indulge them into such activities. Most of them in their lives are at a juncture where they want something for them just as we all do all the time and at the place of work one cannot expect more out of them. But here none is to blame neither me nor anyone but all that lacks is if I am accessible to people who enjoy such practices. But as I began I have not been writing thinking that people shall come and read it, though am of the opinion that one has to write something people connect to and indulges them in a thought process. Hence it is not much of a matter now as to how many posts I get in return though as of now there are NONE...
i HAVE ALWAYS HAD THOUGHTS ON WRITING ABOUT WHAT THOUGHT I BEAR AND IN RECENT TIMES I HAVE TURNED MORE LETHARGIC BUT TONITE SOMEHOW I AM IN THAT MOOD TO MAKE A START. WHILE I TALK ESPECIALLY WITH MY MOTHER THAT MY TALKS END UP CRITICIZING THINGS, PEOPLE AND WHAT NOT SINCE IN FRONT OF HER (BESIDES BEING AT HOME IN MY DOMAIN) I COMPLETELY GET TO BE WHAT I AM THOUGH NOT DENYING THAT IT AINT ME AT WORK OR OUTSIDE YET SOMEWHERE I AM LONER THOUGH DO ENJOY PEOPLE BUT LIKE GIVING MYSELF A LOT OF TIME. IT WAS FOR TODAY THAT I FELT THE SAME AS TO HOW MUCH FUN OR IF NOT SO IT FEELS DIFFERENT TO BE BACK TO ONESELF NOT BEING ACCOMPANIED BY MANY OR ANY AND BEING ONESELF COMPLETELY. NOW COMING BACK TO WHAT I WOULD OFTEN TALK BACK HOME ARE TALKS ABOUT MY PERCEPTION & LARGELY 'MY EXPECTATION' AND THOUGHTS ON WHAT I SEE AROUND. I TRY AND SHARE WITH MY MOTHER THE WORLD OUTSIDE AND SHE BECOMES A SOURCE (INSPIRATION OR A REASON IF I MAY SAY) FOR ME TO BE ONE...BUT EVEN OTHERWISE I HAVE THAT QUEST BUT SOMEWHERE I AM A LONER IN MY QUEST AT TIMES INDULGING PEOPLE BUT NOT AT LARGE SINCE I NEVER AIM FOR THE SAME.
Dost aur Dosti...
Aakhir loge dost kyon bunte hain...?? Shayad isliye ki kahin koi tumhe aisa time aur co. deta hai ki tum uske saath comfortable ho jate ho...shayad rapport kuch aisi bunn jaati hai ki...par kuch aise bhi hote hain...jinki ek doosre se nai bunti aur vo shayad kabhi dost nai bunn paate...ek dost se kya chahte ho ?? time, waqt...masti...affection...(waise ladai jhagda tow iss main formally shaamil nai..par kuch dost isliye bhi bune rehtay hain kyon ki ladai se masti bani rehti hai)...shayad koi tumhe dost maane...kyon tum uske bure time main kaam aaye...SO YEH KEHNA GALAT NAI...DOSTI KI NEEv..BASE BHI EK ZAROORAT PAR TIKI HAI...jum tuk tum kisi ke kaam ke rehtay ho dost ho..saamne ho kisi ke...dost ho...par kya dooriyaan dosti khatam kar deti hain...haan bhi aur naa bhi...ek dost...se sabse zyada kya chahtey ho...time...par dosti hoti selfish aur mutual reasons se hai...mujhe koi accha laga aur main ussay...toh hum dost bunn gaye...par kya loge zindgi bhar ke liye dost bunn paate hain...shayad haan...par dosti wahi reh paati hai jahan aap apne dost ke baarein main sochey...uska khayal rakhein...chahe aapke dost ki khushi...aapko khushi deti ho...ye bhi ek reason hai...par selfless selfish hona..i know interesting and contracting...i have heard people say...best of the friends are never made at work or at later stages in life...but they all have been hurt somewhere...YEH DOSTI HUM NAHI CHODENGAY...sholay ka ye song...jai veeru par isliye bhi fit raha kyonki..jai tow raha nai...aur dono apni dosti main kabhi daraar nahi dekh paaye..interestng angle...but insaan ke liye pehlay main aur fir dosti...agar main khud khush nai..tow fir dosti kiss kaam ki....yeh main nai kehta...this is what is visible around...yeh kaafi selfish though hai..par kehtay hain na out of sight out of mind...ek accha dost bhi kai baar solid dushamun bunn sakta hai...after all its all about expectations...rishtey bunte hi expectations par hain...jub hum dost bane to koi expectation nai thi...par ab dost bun gaye tow expect karne lagte hai...aur agar tumne expectations ko expect kiya tow dost bune rahe varna...tu apni raah main apni...yahi saar hai duniya ka...
Its after sometime that I got to see a movie that is so different but I trhink as for movies go..I go for something different and an awarded and recognised piece....not that I am looking for the most renowned but something simple, touching and meaningful makes sense and captures attention. Here I talk of Michael Moores' journey into US Healthcare systems...via his movie SICKO. I began to know about SICKO on visit to his site http;//www.micjaelmoore.com which was followed by me watching Fahranhait 911. The Bush administration was under scrutiny and SICKO is somewhat an extension of how BUSH administration works n regard to health systems. US has a health insurance coverage of nearly $6000 with Cuba having the same at $251 and yet US stands at 37 position among 191 countries rated. Whooping 6000$ and yet such poor health conditions this is what Moore tells the world about. The movie begins talking about those impacted with health issues due to lack of health insurance but it is no less about those who have insurance but fail to get proper and best medical treatment. So he hits the bull's sye by focusing on both the insured and not and tells how the US Medical Companies are profiting and how people are denied healthcare when that should be the priority of a NATION. The movie is an eye opener but what stuck me from the word go was that I was not going to be blind folded to what Moore says. But he sure does convince you via his efforts and then journey to SICKO Began with me watching snippets of discussions (AND NOT DEBATE) between Moore and CNN Doctor Journalist (SUN)JAY GUPTA...The Doctor cum jouno wanted to focus on how moore played with facts merely attending to incorrect showcasing of Cuban health figures and stated it stood at $25 while Moore told it to eb $251 but later agreed to the misrepresentation of data due to lingo errors but then at end goes on to agree that the healthcare systems need to improve and he and Moore need to take this as a Discussion and not a DEBATE AND hence agrees to where Moore gets the attention diverted. It's true that when as per Moore 18, 000 American die cause of lack of No Insurance, guess what the # would be in INDIA....but all Moore says is that Us abandons it citizens the right to healthcare while the other less prosperous Nations like Cuba and small countries like France and UK still offer free medical treatment (though they charge citizens more taxes, especially France////) but despite that people live a great life and most important are happy. The most AMAZING FIGURE AND I SAY READ THIS CAREFULLY...AN AESTHMETIC PATIENT GETS TO BUY AN INHALER IN US FOR $120 WHILE THE SAME>>>CAN U GUESS COSTS IN CUBA A FEW PESOS...CAN YOU IMAGINE HOW MUCH WOULD THAT BE...CANT EVEN THINK OF ...IT'S WHOOPING...NO NO...merely 5 cents...so can you see the difference...$120 in Us vs. 5cents (US cents...converted figures)....in CUBA....so all it says that in US the countrymen's health is run by Healthcare Systems and if you cant afford to pay you are out on road...sometimes you have to sell you house...let go off a family member...and what not...another amazing figure was the cost of putting back a finger...a man lost in US was $60,0006 for middle finger and another 12, 000 for another one...and the man chose to go BUT OBVIOUS FOR THE LESSER ONE...while in anothe country a man with similar issue with his hand coming under a Saw..got it done within bare minimum amount...the stories are severe...but as CNN Doc...Dr. Gupta says Moore showcased on most severe of the cases, however the point that favors Moore is that if less developed nations..HERE READ CAREFULLY...can offer FREE HEALTHCARE...WHY DOES US NOT ADAPTS THERE METHODS TO offer similar support to people there...People go to Canada to get free/cheap healthcare or live in France since they cannot afford high Insurance care in US...that's how the Healthcare companies work....In one of the snippets it is shown that Richard Nickson..discusses in his White House Office on giving Private Medical Companies a chance to take care of US Healthcare and they end up giving the lowest medical care to many...but at what cost...poor medical service...means..you give them insurance cover but tend to exclude the most serious ailments...now what the hell would that support if many of your medical ailments are not covered...so this is the INSURANCE business..where the Cos. get bigger day by day and people medically poor....the concepts around increased employment rate during during WORLD WAR and low economy otherwise are SURPRISING AND am yet to grasp most of them...WATCH SICKO AS AN EYE OPENER..BUT DONT BE ENTIRELY THROWN ABACK BY IT...APPY YOUR MIND TOO...as Bachchan said in one of his Hindi Movies...agar wafadaar chahiye to kuttay paal low...par agar insaan ko kaam par rakhna HAI TOW DEMAAG/BRAINS to use main layega hi sahi...
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